Hard talk: managing difficult conversations
Key principles to remember when giving feedback
When approaching challenging feedback discussions, consider these key principles:
- Name the specific issue (keep it to one)
- Give one specific example to illustrate the issue
- State your emotion
- Say what you feel is at stake
- Acknowledge your part
- Emphasise that you seek resolution
- Invite the person to give their take on the situation
- Listen – do not defend or argue
- Interact and stay focussed on the issue, not the personality
- Act reasonably – acknowledge rights and responsibilities
Feedback after a lesson observation should be structured, clear and constructive. Feedback should:
- Be rooted in mutual respect in a culture where we are all learning
- Celebrate what is good and great
- Not overwhelm the teacher with too much detail
- Precisely identify how the learning might be improved
- Be delivered through questions that enable the teacher to reflect
See more in our module Coaching to drive school improvement, created with One Education.